I thought I'd learned from
my mistakes, but I guess not. At least this time the problem was an offline error. I had a really nice entry being edited yesterday for this blog, and got my machine hung before I saved a copy (I just saved what I've written in this post so far!)
So, now I'll try to re-invent what I wrote once already, and you can bet I'll be saving this puppy often as I do.
Before we get started with the back story that is the
raison d'etre for this blog, I'm going to explain how I'm going to proceed with giving you some idea "what I'm about" in the most useful fashion.
I tend to be someone who likes my route well thought out before beginning a trip, and a plan of action before beginning any venture. As such, I'm going to lay out my plan so that you know what to expect.
My intent is to concurrently implement two techniques that I've been familiar with for many years:
- The first technique (I was taught this a number of years ago by a salesman) gives you the ability to converse with anyone you'd like to get to know better (and, in the salesman's case, anyone you'd like to sell something to).
This first technique is called FORM.
FORM stands for Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Money (or Message). If you introduce yourself to someone and start a discussion about your families, jobs, recreational interests, and then talk about whatever your message is (or what you're selling) you stand a better chance of investing that person in what you're saying.
And since this blog will be (as I hope all my blogs are) a conversation between myself and my readers, I'm going to be using the FORM method to structure the information you learn about me.
- But wait, there's MORE!!!
The second technique I'm going to employ is something from my former life in the world of IT (information technology): spiral development. Yes, I'm going to iterate over the FORM areas of my life (mayhap not so much over the M), providing a high-level view of my life at present and how I got here, and then on successive iterations going into more and more detail (but not so much you get sick of me, I hope!)
So, beginning with
Family, (iteration 1), I am:
- 50 years old
- a husband (to wife Julie)
- a father (to son Riley)
- a stay-at-home dad (for six years, come January)
- an orphan
- the fourth of my mother's six kids (I have an two older "half sisters" and a "half brother")
- the first of my father's three children (I have a younger sister and a younger brother)
That's enough of the first iteration on family. Next time I'll talk about my occupation (such as it is).